The timing is just wrong but analyze: is it timing or interest? Map timing issues: legitimate life circumstances vs. avoiding commitment. Calculate: if timing was right, would they commit or find new excuse? Show me the timing truth: actual bad timing vs. "not that into you" excuse. Give me the reality: this is real timing issue, this is excuse. Include: whether timing will ever be right with this person, if they're serious about me, and whether I'm accepting an excuse.