We need couples therapy but analyze: will therapy actually help? Map relationship issues: communication skills gap vs. fundamental incompatibility vs. one person unwilling. Calculate: if one person doesn't want to change, can therapy work? Show me the therapy reality: therapy helps willing partners communicate, can't fix incompatibility or unwillingness. Give me the assessment: therapy could help with this, can't fix this. Include: whether both people want to change, if therapy is appropriate, or if we're avoiding the real issue.