Their social media bothers me but analyze: is concern valid? Map social media behavior: flirty comments, ex-interaction, hiding me. Calculate: social media behavior vs. real life behavior vs. relationship transparency. Show me the social media reality: some concerns valid, some are insecurity. Give me the assessment: this behavior is disrespectful, I'm being insecure. Include: whether their social media reflects their respect for me, if hiding relationship is red flag, and what boundaries are reasonable.