We don't have enough sex but analyze: what's actually normal? Map our sex life: frequency, quality, both people satisfied. Calculate: my ideal vs. their ideal vs. compatible middle ground. Show me the sex reality: mismatched libidos vs. other relationship issues affecting sex. Give me the assessment: this is libido mismatch, this is relationship problem showing up as sex issue. Include: whether sex frequency is the issue or symptom, if we're compatible sexually, and what's realistic long-term.