I'm anxious about relationship but analyze: anxiety or intuition? Map anxiety: my attachment style vs. their behavior vs. valid concerns. Calculate: anxiety from past trauma vs. current red flags vs. gut instinct. Show me the distinction: this is my anxiety, this is intuition warning me. Give me the reality: I'm being anxious, something is genuinely wrong. Include: whether my anxiety is valid, if I'm ignoring red flags, and whether my gut is trying to tell me something.