They've changed but analyze: changed or revealed true self? Map personality shift: growth vs. deception wearing off vs. comfort showing real self. Calculate: time together vs. changes observed vs. early warning signs I missed. Show me the change reality: people grow and change, people also reveal who they really are. Give me the truth: they changed, they were always like this. Include: whether this is who they really are, if I ignored red flags early on, and whether people actually change fundamentally.