I'm waiting for the right person but analyze: am I expecting perfection? Map my partner requirements: reasonable needs vs. unrealistic fantasy. Calculate: if I'm eliminating 99% of people over minor preferences, am I the problem? Show me the expectation trap: looking for perfect instead of compatible. Give me the reality check: these requirements are reasonable, these are fantasy. Include: whether my standards are too high, what's negotiable vs. non-negotiable, and if I'm self-sabotaging with perfectionism.