Do I love them or am I just used to them but analyze: what is this? Map feelings: genuine love vs. comfort vs. fear of change. Calculate: why I stay vs. what I'd miss vs. whether I'm happy. Show me the love vs. habit: I genuinely love them, I'm staying from habit. Give me the truth: this is love, this is comfort. Include: whether I actually love them, if I'm staying from fear, and what would happen if I left.