I know their love language but they ignore mine but analyze: what does that mean? Map love languages: I speak theirs, they don't speak mine. Calculate: effort I give vs. effort they give vs. care level. Show me the love language reality: knowing and not doing means choosing not to meet needs. Give me the truth: they know my language and don't care. Include: whether they're trying, if knowing without doing is worse, and what this says about their care for me.