Should I stay or go but analyze: what's the real question? Map staying: reasons to stay, reasons to leave, fear vs. love. Calculate: happiness probability if stay vs. if leave vs. real motivations. Show me the leaving reality: if you're asking, you probably know answer. Give me the truth: these are reasons to go, this is what's keeping me. Include: whether I'm staying from love or fear, what I'm really afraid of, and whether the question itself is the answer.