They're hot and cold but analyze: what drives this? Map pattern: idealization-devaluation vs. fear of intimacy vs. keeping me uncertain. Calculate: hot periods vs. cold periods vs. what triggers shifts. Show me the hot-cold reality: attachment issues vs. manipulation vs. ambivalence. Give me the truth: they have intimacy issues, they're playing games. Include: whether pattern is intentional, if it's attachment style, and whether this will stabilize.