I'm trying to save them but analyze: am I helping or enabling? Map my role: supportive partner vs. savior complex vs. codependent rescuer. Calculate: help given vs. their growth vs. my exhaustion. Show me the hero complex: I'm supporting, I'm trying to save them. Give me the truth: they don't want saving, I'm losing myself trying. Include: whether I have savior complex, if they want to be saved, and whether I'm dating potential instead of reality.