They won't integrate me with friends but analyze: why? Map friend integration: keeping me separate vs. different social lives vs. hiding relationship. Calculate: time with their friends vs. including me vs. reason for separation. Show me the integration reality: healthy separate friendships vs. compartmentalizing vs. not serious about me. Give me the truth: this is normal, this is red flag. Include: whether keeping me separate is concerning, if they're hiding me, and what this says about relationship seriousness.