They expect instant forgiveness but analyze: is that fair? Map forgiveness: their expectation vs. my healing process vs. earned trust. Calculate: severity of hurt vs. time to heal vs. their remorse. Show me the forgiveness reality: forgiveness is process, can't be demanded. Give me the truth: they're rushing my healing, I'm withholding forgiveness unfairly. Include: whether quick forgiveness is expected, if I'm allowed to heal, and whether they've earned forgiveness.