Their family is the problem but analyze: is it family or their boundaries? Map family dynamics: overinvolved family vs. partner not setting boundaries. Calculate: family behavior vs. partner's response vs. our relationship impact. Show me the real issue: family is intrusive AND partner allows it. Give me the boundary assessment: family oversteps, partner enforces nothing. Include: whether family is the problem or partner's unwillingness to prioritize me, if boundaries exist, and whether this will change after marriage.