I do all emotional labor but analyze: is that true? Map emotional labor: relationship maintenance, planning, remembering, caring. Calculate: my emotional labor vs. theirs vs. what I'm not counting. Show me the emotional labor reality: actual imbalance vs. gendered expectations vs. different styles. Give me the pattern: I do this, they do nothing. Include: whether imbalance is real, if they contribute in ways I don't see, and whether this is sustainable.