They're emotionally unavailable but analyze: unavailable or uninterested? Map emotional availability: trauma vs. not that into me vs. personality. Calculate: time together vs. emotional opening vs. effort to be vulnerable. Show me the distinction: genuinely struggling vs. not invested enough to try. Give me the reality: they're working on availability, they're just not that into me. Include: whether they're trying to open up, if I'm convenient not priority, and whether emotional availability will change.