We fight differently but analyze: incompatible or learnable? Map conflict styles: pursuer-distancer, yeller-silent treatment, immediate-needs time. Calculate: style differences vs. willingness to adapt vs. damage done. Show me the conflict style reality: different styles can work if both adapt. Give me the truth: we can bridge this, our styles are incompatible. Include: whether conflict style differences are fixable, if we're both willing to adapt, and what healthy conflict looks like for us.