They crossed my dealbreaker but analyze: was it really a dealbreaker? Map dealbreakers: stated boundaries vs. actual boundaries vs. what I'm tolerating. Calculate: dealbreaker crossed vs. me staying vs. boundary integrity. Show me the dealbreaker reality: I'm moving my boundaries, it wasn't actually a dealbreaker. Give me the truth: I'm compromising my standards, I should leave. Include: whether dealbreakers are flexible, why I'm staying after boundary crossed, and what this says about my self-respect.