They compare me to exes but analyze: what does that mean? Map comparisons: favorable vs. unfavorable, frequency, context. Calculate: comparison frequency vs. being over ex vs. relationship security. Show me the comparison reality: not over ex vs. poor boundaries vs. innocent mention. Give me the pattern: they bring up ex this often about these things. Include: whether they're over their ex, if comparisons are disrespectful, and whether this indicates they're settling for me.