We're so close but analyze: close or codependent? Map relationship: healthy interdependence vs. loss of self vs. enmeshment. Calculate: individual identity vs. couple identity vs. anxiety when apart. Show me the codependency signs: we're interdependent, we're codependent. Give me the pattern: these behaviors indicate codependency. Include: whether closeness is healthy, if I've lost myself, and whether codependency is destroying us both.