Our attachment styles clash but analyze: can we make it work? Map attachment styles: anxious-avoidant trap vs. secure-secure vs. growth potential. Calculate: self-awareness vs. willingness to work on it vs. pattern repetition. Show me the attachment reality: awareness and effort can help, some combinations stay stuck. Give me the assessment: we can work on this, we're trapped in cycle. Include: whether attachment styles doom us, if we're both working on it, and whether this explains our pattern.