I think we're trauma bonded but what if we just have history? Analyze the relationship: shared experiences, what binds us, the good and bad. Then expose: is this trauma bond (tied together through pain/dysfunction) or is this just a relationship with complex history? Map what connects us and reality-check: do we stay together because we're both broken in compatible ways or because we genuinely care despite difficulties? Show me the difference: trauma bond (the pain is the glue) vs. complicated love (there's pain but also genuine connection). Reveal whether this relationship is toxic or just difficult, whether I'm addicted to dysfunction or just committed through complexity. Include: if we'd stay together without the trauma, whether this is love or just shared damage, and if I'm trauma bonded or just don't want to lose the history.