Every time I get close to what I want, I blow it up. Here's my pattern: [describe opportunities lost, relationships ended right before commitment, projects abandoned before completion, and self-destructive behaviors]. Map my self-sabotage signature: what form does it take? (procrastination, picking fights, substance use, ghosting, perfectionism that prevents finishing, creating drama, getting sick, burning bridges, sudden life changes). Identify the timeline: exactly when in the success cycle do I sabotage? (before I start, midway through, right before the win, or right after achieving?). Then decode the why: what am I protecting myself from by sabotaging? (expectations, visibility, responsibility, change, proving I'm not enough, losing the hunger that drives me, outgrowing my identity, or leaving behind people I'd surpass?). Analyze the belief system: what do I unconsciously believe about success? (it's not for people like me, I'll lose myself, I'll lose people, I don't deserve it, it's followed by loss, I won't be able to handle it, or I'll be exposed as a fraud). Reveal the secondary gain: what do I get from failing that I'd lose by succeeding? (sympathy, low expectations, victim status, martyr identity, underdog position, or excuse not to try harder?). Create the sabotage prevention system: the early warning signs (physical, emotional, behavioral) that sabotage is coming, the intervention for each sabotage method (if I procrastinate when I'm close to success, then...), the belief restructure (installing new success associations), the identity expansion work (becoming someone who can hold success), the support system restructure (removing people who benefit from my failure), and the 6-month success tolerance building (gradually increasing how much winning I can handle). Include: the moment before I sabotage where I could choose differently, what success would mean that scares me more than failure, and the life that's waiting if I just...don't blow it up this time.