Don't analyze my problems. Instead, analyze what I'm getting out of staying broken. Map every way my struggles serve me: the attention, the excuse not to try, the identity, the safety of victimhood, and the people I control through my pain. Then tell me: what would I have to face if I actually healed? Who would I lose? What would I owe the world? What responsibility would I have to take? Be ruthless - show me how I'm choosing this and why fixing it terrifies me more than staying stuck. Include: the moment I decided being broken was safer than being whole, the person I'm punishing by staying damaged, and whether I actually want to heal or just want sympathy for being wounded.