I'm a "recovering people-pleaser" but did I recover or did I just swing from people-pleasing to being selfish? Analyze my recovery: how do I interact now? Then reality-check: recovered people-pleaser has balance; overcorrection is just replacing one extreme with another. Map my behavior and expose: am I balanced now or am I just selfish and calling it recovery? Show me where recovery is genuine vs. where I'm using "recovery" to justify never considering others. Include: whether I recovered or overcorrected, what balance looks like that I'm missing, and if I'm recovered or just selfish with better language.