I'm "private" but am I private or am I just hiding? Analyze what I keep private and why. Then expose: private is selective sharing with intention; hiding is shame-based withholding. Map what I don't share and reality-check: am I protecting my peace or am I just scared to be known? Show me where privacy is healthy vs. where it's avoidance of intimacy, shame about my life, or fear of judgment. Reveal what I'm calling privacy that's actually: shame, fear of being seen, or inability to be vulnerable. Include: whether I'm private or just hiding, what I'm afraid people will see, and if I'm protecting myself or just preventing connection.