I'm not a people-pleaser from kindness - I'm a people-pleaser from control. Analyze my people-pleasing and expose the power play: by never having needs, I never owe anyone; by always giving, I keep score; by being "nice," I'm above criticism; by accommodating everyone, I control the tone; by sacrificing, I win the moral Olympics. Map every people-pleasing behavior and reveal the control mechanism underneath. Then deliver the truth: people-pleasing isn't selfless, it's strategic. I'm managing everyone's perception of me, controlling situations through niceness, and staying in power while looking powerless. Show me what I'm actually controlling: how people see me, who can criticize me (no one - I'm too nice), and my victim status when I snap. Include: what I get from people-pleasing that I'd lose by being direct, who I'm manipulating with my niceness, and whether I'm kind or just terrified of being seen as selfish.