I "parallel date" but am I polyamorous/keeping options open healthily or am I just stringing people along? Analyze my dating pattern: how many? How honest? What's my intention? Then expose: parallel dating with transparency is ethical; parallel dating with deception is manipulation. Map who I'm dating and what they know: are they aware? Do they think they're the only one? Am I being ethical or am I just keeping backups? Show me where I'm practicing healthy non-exclusivity vs. where I'm just hedging my bets and lying about it. Include: whether I'm ethically non-exclusive or just a player, what I'm avoiding by keeping multiple options, and if I'm honest or just strategic.