I have a "love language" but am I expressing needs or am I just being demanding and calling it my love language? Analyze my love language: how do I use it? Do I weaponize it? Then expose: love languages help partners understand each other; weaponized love languages are just ultimatums with psychology backing. Map how I use my love language and reality-check: am I asking to be loved in my language or am I refusing to accept love that doesn't come in my specific form? Show me where love language is helpful vs. where I'm just being inflexible and calling it knowing myself. Include: whether I have a love language or just demands, what I'm refusing that's actually love, and if I'm asking for accommodation or just being difficult.