I'm paralyzed between major life decisions: [describe 2-4 big decisions I can't make, how long I've been stuck, what I'm weighing, and what everyone's telling me]. Stop giving me pros and cons lists - I've made a million. Instead, run a deep analysis: what's the REAL decision under the surface decision (what am I actually choosing between?), what am I using this indecision to avoid, which option am I secretly leaning toward but afraid to admit, what will I regret more in 10 years - doing it or not doing it, what's the worst-case scenario I'm catastrophizing about (and what's the actual probability?), and who in my life has a vested interest in which choice I make. Then design the decision-making experiment: the 30-day trial run for each option (how to test before committing), the "regret minimization framework" specific to my situation, the questions I need to answer first before the decision becomes clear, the fear I need to face that's keeping me stuck, and the coin flip test (if I flipped a coin right now, which result would I be hoping for?). Include: the decision timeline - if I haven't decided by [date], make this choice by default because indecision is choosing, and the identity question - which version of my future self am I willing to become?