We practice "ethical non-monogamy" but is it ethical or are we just cheating and using trendy language? Analyze the relationship: what are the actual agreements? Does everyone truly consent or is someone tolerating this to keep their partner? Then expose: ethical non-monogamy requires full consent and communication; cheating is cheating even if you call it something else. Map the reality vs. the label: is everyone actually on board or is someone compromising their boundaries? Show me where this is truly ethical vs. where it's one person getting their way and calling it evolved. Include: whether this is ethical or just one-sided, who's really benefiting, and if this is consensual non-monogamy or just infidelity with better PR.