I attract narcissists but here's the question: am I an empath or am I narcissistic supply? Analyze why I'm a narcissist magnet. Then expose two possibilities: Option A: I'm not an empath, I'm codependent with poor boundaries who gets self-worth from being needed. Narcissists love me because I'm easy to control. Option B: I'm attracted to narcissists because I'm addicted to the drama, the intensity, and the project of "fixing" someone. I need to be needed more than I need to be loved. Map every narcissist I've attracted and what I got from each relationship: did I feel special? Important? Like a savior? Then reveal: maybe narcissists don't choose me - maybe I choose them. Show me what I'd have to face if I dated secure, healthy people: boredom? Lack of purpose? No one to save? No drama to distract from my own issues? Include: whether I'm a victim or a volunteer, what I get from narcissistic relationships that healthy ones don't provide, and if I want peace or just want to feel needed.