I avoid conflict but do I avoid conflict or do I just fight dirty? Analyze how I handle disagreement: what do I do instead of direct confrontation? Then expose: conflict avoidance is refusing to engage; passive-aggression is fighting sideways. Map my "avoidance": do I actually avoid conflict or do I just express it through: silent treatment, subtle sabotage, "forgetting," sarcasm, or talking to everyone except the person? Show me the truth: I'm not avoiding conflict, I'm just engaging in it in ways they can't call out. Reveal: you're not peaceful, you're just cowardly. Include: how I fight without fighting, what I'm avoiding by not being direct, and whether I'm truly conflict-avoidant or just passive-aggressive calling it peace-keeping.