I'm "complicated" but am I complex or am I just a mess? Analyze my "complication": what makes me complicated? Then reality-check: complicated is depth, nuance, and layers; chaotic is just dysfunction calling itself interesting. Map what I call complicated and expose: am I deep or am I just all over the place? Show me where complexity is genuine vs. where I'm just disorganized, unstable, or creating unnecessary drama. Reveal: maybe you're not complicated, you're just refusing to get your shit together and calling it depth. Include: whether I'm complex or chaotic, what I'm calling complicated that's just messy, and if I'm interesting or just unstable.