Forget setting boundaries. Instead, show me how my lack of boundaries is actually a control tactic. Map every way I use "no boundaries" to manipulate: making people feel guilty for having boundaries with me, using my giving to create obligation, sacrificing to make others feel indebted, being "too nice" so no one can criticize me, and playing martyr to control the narrative. Then expose: my boundary problem isn't that I can't say no - it's that I weaponize yes. I'm not a victim of people-pleasing, I'm using it strategically. Show me what I get from being boundaryless that I'd lose if I actually protected myself. Include: who I control through my sacrifice, what I avoid by never saying no, and whether I'm genuinely kind or just manipulating through niceness.