I should DM people but analyze: outreach or spam? Map DM strategy: genuine connection vs. spammy outreach vs. response rate. Calculate: DM outreach vs. organic growth vs. effectiveness. Show me the DM reality: cold DMs usually feel spammy. Give me the truth: DMs work if genuine, fail if template. Include: whether DM strategy is working, if messages feel spammy, what genuine outreach looks like.