I'm desperate to find someone but analyze: is desperation repelling people? Map my dating energy: scarcity mindset vs. abundance mindset, neediness level. Calculate: desperate energy vs. relaxed energy vs. attraction. Show me the desperation trap: neediness is repellent, abundance is attractive. Give me the truth: desperation guarantees failure. Include: whether I'm giving off desperate energy, how scarcity mindset shows, and how to cultivate abundance mindset.