I'm nice but friend-zoned but analyze: am I too nice? Map niceness: genuine kindness vs. people-pleasing vs. lack of boundaries. Calculate: authentic nice vs. doormat nice vs. attraction. Show me the nice guy trap: being "nice" to get relationship is manipulative. Give me the truth: people-pleasing isn't attractive. Include: whether I'm genuinely nice or transactional, if lack of boundaries is issue, and what authentic kindness looks like.