I have 50 dealbreakers but analyze: am I being unrealistic? Map dealbreakers: list length, flexibility, finding anyone. Calculate: necessary dealbreakers vs. preference vs. unrealistic standards. Show me the dealbreaker trap: too many dealbreakers means nobody qualifies. Give me the truth: I'm eliminating everyone with this list. Include: which dealbreakers are actually important, what's negotiable, and whether standards are too high.