I'm not confident because not competent but analyze: which comes first? Map skills: actual competence level, confidence level, gap between them. Calculate: competence vs. confidence vs. which to build first. Show me the gap reality: some confident people are less competent than me. Give me the truth: confidence and competence can be built separately. Include: whether lack of competence is real or perceived, if confident incompetent people succeed, and how to build both.