Setting boundaries makes me anxious but analyze: what's the fear? Map boundary anxiety: fear of conflict, people-pleasing, guilt. Calculate: no boundaries cost vs. boundary-setting discomfort vs. long-term benefit. Show me the boundary reality: temporary discomfort, long-term relief. Give me the truth: boundary anxiety is less than boundary-less life anxiety. Include: what I fear about boundaries, whether boundary-setting gets easier, and what life without boundaries costs.